GOT THESE LINES IN MY FACE TRYING TO STRAIGHTEN OUT THE WRINKLES OF MY LIFE...

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GOT THESE LINES IN MY FACE TRYING TO STRAIGHTEN OUT THE WRINKLES OF MY LIFE...

Post by Bigguy » Tue Sep 05, 2017 8:05 am

Today I hit 70. Hell, if I'd known I was going to live this long, I'd have taken better care of myself.

Along what is now a long path, I never really put too much thought into birthdays...well, other than anxiously looking forward to my grandmother's chocolate birthday cake. Some birthdays marked significant milestones like turning 16 and getting my driver's license, turning 21 and finally buying alcohol legally. On my 40th, my mother called to wish me happy birthday, telling me "you've now reached the age you've always been"! She had a way of keeping me well grounded.

At 70 you can't help but glimpse into the rear view mirror of your life. For me it's not to mourn my misspent youth or wonder what might have been, but rather to reflect on how the journey's been so far. I've always been more occupied with wondering what was around the next bend. Unfortunately you can't help but realize that the miles are getting short...something I don't particularly like to dwell on.

I've come to realize that my life so far has been more like a leaf that fell into the the stream from a cottonwood. I've drifted along with the currents. Sometimes hitting rapids that scared the shit out of me, but somehow managing to survive. I've drifted into foam filled eddies and just turned circles trying to find a way out. I've run through some fine riffles and had long stretches of calm easy currents where I could enjoy the ride.

Along the way I've had the incredible fortune to meet and befriend some interesting, talented people. I don't know how much I added to their life experiences, but they damned well enriched mine.

I had a long and successful professional career, didn't make much money, but hopefully made lasting contributions. It was for the most part fun, and at the end of the day I can look in the mirror and be proud that my honesty and integrity remained intact.

At an fairly early age I recognized I was a borderline type A personality, and had the good sense to keep it in check lest it destroy my family. But I found that fly fishing was the only way I could relieve stress of work and relax.

After my Mother passed away I was concerned that my Dad would just give up. About a month after my Mother's passing, I called him and told him he had a choice to make. He could sit in his chair and die, and if that's the road he took, whatever I inherited would be spent fishing all the places we had read about, talked and dreamed about. Or, we could both hit those places together. A few days later he called and said he'd never seen a casket with pockets or windows- let's go fishing! For ten years until advanced age took away his mobility, we fished two or three time a year. He was the one that pointed out how each day on the water my stress would wash away.
Maybe on some level the love of fly fishing was their final gift.

Next week we head to Montana. My kids will be joining us. Both my son and daughter have come to enjoy fly fishing though I'm not certain their passion for it is a strong as mine. But now I find I am no longer hellbent to hammer the water, but rather to relax and soak in the full experience, getting an added degree of satisfaction from their enjoyment.

I came to the Drake out of a curiosity about the 'new age' of you youngster fly fishers and discovered you're a hell of a lot more fun than those stuffy old geezers!

So to my new friends, those I've met and those yet to be met, thank you...you've helped keep me forever young!

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Post by B.M. Barrelcooker » Tue Sep 05, 2017 8:17 am

Happy Birthday!!!!

and thanks!


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Post by The Wandering Blues » Tue Sep 05, 2017 8:23 am

It's your birthday and yet you gave us this gift of your experience. Thank you for the insight because I find myself looking at that rear view window, sometimes.

Best wishes and enjoy the trip north.
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Post by ironman » Tue Sep 05, 2017 9:11 am

Happy Birthday, 70th dood!

Thanks for the perspective.
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Post by austrotard » Tue Sep 05, 2017 9:17 am

get out.
mate, it's ryan says... and ryan didn't say.
you're out.

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Post by chadroc » Tue Sep 05, 2017 9:19 am

here is to your good life. thanks for sharing it with us.
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Post by Average Joe » Tue Sep 05, 2017 10:48 am

Sounds like a life well-lived.

Happy birthday Bigguy, and many more.

Next year you should celebrate by hosting Mitch.

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Post by Transylwader » Tue Sep 05, 2017 11:45 am

Birthday wishes, Jeff! Look in front, reflect on the behind :bow
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Post by root wad » Tue Sep 05, 2017 11:51 am

Some well-crafted thoughts there that hit close to home in more ways than one. Getting ready for a day of fishing myself but no longer in a hurry and enjoying looking forward to trying to find a steelhead. I believe there comes a time when the anticipation of what might occur is as delicious as the occurrence itself. Thanks for reminding me.
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Post by RockyMtHigh » Tue Sep 05, 2017 1:14 pm

Great reflection there... Happy birthday!
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Post by Bruiser » Tue Sep 05, 2017 1:52 pm

Well that was good BigGuy. I get to fish (and mow lawns) pretty much every day until I hit the double nickle in a couple weeks - with some day job interruptions. Here's to making the most of it. Have fun in Montana and may it rain some up there. :cool
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Post by BobLoblaw » Tue Sep 05, 2017 3:44 pm

Thanks for that; some well-said food for thought, right there.
Enjoy your trip!
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